There's no real commitment to talk back to me, because I am a complete stranger to them, and we aren't face-to-face.
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Pro Tip: Add an emoji to let them know you’re joking. If you can make someone laugh, you might get the ticket to their heart. For me, I'm not interested in single parents, religious people, country music fans, or duck-face photos, so that significantly reduces the number of people on Tinder that I will be compatible with.Īnd even then, if I send a message, they may not like my first message (usually "tell me more about something in your profile" or a witty one-liner), or have second thoughts about swiping right on me (their loss!). Sometimes a cheesy pickup line is all you need to break the ice. That will narrow down your interactions even further than swiping. Questions are tough because they don't know if they can trust you are not.Īlso - there are a lot of personalities that you probably find uninteresting.
Cheesy jokes or witty one-liners are usually a good start, but even those are usually generic. Icebreakers are tough because you don't know what they might potentially find acceptable. That sometimes prohibits more honest conversation, or conversation at all. Because of that, everyone tries to seem appealing to the largest number of people. There's only one general meeting place, where people aren't organized into social groups (like bars or neighborhoods for example). Tinder very much encourages middle-of-the-road profiles. I feel like the bar isn't that high, but it's better than the last five openers I've gotten, which are "Hi ! How is your day going?" "Hey:) How are you doing? :)" "Hey! So what's brought you to ?" "Hii:)" and "Hey there, you have a great smile!" As a first message, one guy said something about one of my more unique pictures, and one guy said a unique thing about a well known restaurant here (which was related to my bio). Interesting: something relating to my bio (usually about restaurants), something relating to one of my pictures as long as it's not creepy, an off-the-wall question that isn't an obvious pickup lineįor example, I went on two dates recently. they are standard icebreakers but rarely turn into anything interesting, so I often don't answer I'm like OP in that out of probably 400-500+ matches (in my long time on tinder /sob) I've met up with <10 people.īoring: hi, hi :), hi ), how are you, what brought you to, you have a nice smile!, what did you do this weekend, how was your day, etc. Not OP, but for me, anyone who takes the conversation out of normal small talk is interesting. If you see a post violating the rules please report it.Īpproved Domains Weekly Threads Moderators We don't see everything that gets posted.Practice making friends and then see if you can make better connections :) youll get there and good luck, try to be honest about who.
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See the full rules in the wiki! Image Removal Need a photo removed? Click here. Try to match and have conversations, yes, but you can definitely try to date outside of tinder or apps too Look for an interest or hobby you like, and go find communities online or in person for that interest.
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